Try not to fall in the trap...

Well well well, actually not written in the blog spot for ages! There are not enough hours in a day, week,month to spare sometimes.
Well back at university,obviously situations have been going on.

I was having a conversation today with a coursemate and of course what else would it be about other that the subject of errr men!
Were talking about my past and her past and she said listen to me... if you love somthing set it free, because sooner or later it will come back to you.. she told me an example of this, in which it had happened to her and somehow I actually believe it, she won me over with her thoery because shes back with her bf and has been happy ever since.

Recently Ive had a spot of bother with a guy id met a few months ago, in which I told a male friend about.
He than told me something which Ive been dying to write in.
So here it is ... he has an older sister , shes in her later twenties and met this guy and my mate thinks he awesome he got everything, great man perfect for his sister.
His sister faults him, over the smallest things like not spending enough time on the phone in his busy scheduled day and makes a fuss. the reason he told me this story was for the very reverse reason which clicked, my mate thought I was trying to find the good in a guy that decided his job was more important than myself and said that i would be at the bottom of his priority list, so to me he really was just a guy... DELETED, its VERY hard to see a situation you are in from an outer perspective unless you consult.

Another story about weirdness of two people i just dont understand, I went out in Leeds on Saturday night with a group of mates, one of my guy mates (A) was with another girl who had visiting in the club, my girl mate (B) was with me. These two A and B have a very weird relationship with each other, very flirty and touchy feely like dancing together drunk in a clubs when they can. Anyway A was VERY drunk was with the girl but was texting B at the same time saying he wanted her. B and myself couldnt understand this, so A and B had the convo about it a few days later and he appologised and B thought that drink wasnt a good enough excuse.
A is now texting the girl and thinks something will happen in the next few months, B doesnt know what to think.

We aint getting any younger and yesterday my grandparents gave my family a scare, ive not seen them in a while but it made me realise to tell people who care about that you do, being away from home isnt easy when you hear about family troubles. Just make sure your close with your family, at the end of the day theyve been there for you your whole life.

So I named this blog try not to fall into the trap for a very good reason, guys will come and go make you, feel crap, down, but at the end of the day keep yourself busy because as long as your happy within yourself, then you make someone else in the future just as happy!
xoxo